Starting Fresh: A Guide to Living Together

Congratulations—you’ve said ‘yes’ to moving in with your partner and now it’s time to figure out how to share your space. Moving in together is a huge milestone, and while it’s exciting, it also comes with a few logistical puzzles. Let’s break it down.

Decluttering and Downsizing

Unless you’re moving into a mansion, chances are you’ve got a few too many things. Three sets of dinner plates? Five spare duvets? Time for a sort-out! Selling, donating, or storing items can help make your home feel more ‘us’ and less ‘overstocked department store.’ Consider using self storage to create more storage space while you figure it all out.

Financial Transparency

Nobody likes talking about bills, but getting this sorted early makes life much smoother. Whether you keep finances separate or pool everything together, it helps to have a plan. No one wants an argument over who forgot to pay the electricity bill! 

Balancing Personal Space

Living together means seeing each other a lot—which is mostly wonderful, but let’s be honest, sometimes you’ll both need a little space. Having ‘me time’ spots (even if it’s just a favourite chair or a gaming corner) can keep things harmonious.

Legal Considerations

We know it’s not the most thrilling topic, but did you know that without a legal agreement, you might not have any claim to your partner’s assets if things go pear-shaped? A simple cohabitation agreement can clear up any grey areas, so there are no surprises down the line.

Read this article from Barratt Homes about why a cohabitation agreement is a good idea for couples living together.

Embracing New Traditions

Living together isn’t just about sharing bills and wardrobes—it’s about creating your own traditions. Pizza Fridays? Saturday morning walks? A ‘who can cook the best Sunday roast’ competition? Make your space feel like home, your home.